Why Some Gilmore Girls Fans Still Defend Lindsay

In season 4 of "Gilmore Girls," Dean married his girlfriend, Lindsay Lister (Arielle Kebbel), after graduating high school. During this time, Rory confides in Dean about her difficulties at Yale, while Dean shares his feelings of stress at home. This, in turn, leads to a close friendship that eventually becomes romantic. In the season finale, the duo secretly begins an affair, which sets off a chain reaction of disastrous consequences.

In a "Gilmore Girls" Reddit thread, many viewers stepped in to defend Lindsay, who they believe was unfairly portrayed as the villain in Rory and Dean's relationship. As u/Queen-Lexopedia noted, Dean often positioned Lindsay as a selfish partner who pushed him to work night and day. Emphasizing the unfairness of this perspective, the user argued, "When we do see Lindsay after Dean cheats, she isn't some selfish person ... She waited for him ... She did nothing wrong, yet she apologizes and makes him roasted beef ..."

Other Redditors agreed with this assessment, pointing out that Dean unnecessarily snapped at Lindsay to make her feel worse rather than acknowledge his misbehavior. U/cursedbythegods said, "The scene where Dean yells at Lindsay for virtually no reason after cheating on her makes me so upset. She deserved better." U/SouthGirl1992 concurred, adding, "He manipulated her into believing that she was being difficult."

U/CelestialBing succinctly summed up the sentiment of the thread, writing, "Lindsay was a victim of Dean's toxicity. She might not have been perfect, but who is?" Criticizing the questionable things we ignore in "Gilmore Girls," many users wished that Rory had moved on rather than reconciled with him.